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----Things women are NOT:

1. A game to be played:
So many guys claim to be so big and bad because they're "players" Which, in my dictionary is another term for an idiotic male incapable of being honest to anyone, least of all himself. Women aren't some game to be fiddled around with until you're bored, not something you can just dig into with cheat codes and faq's. For you sad people who "play" women, you're just running from the fact you can't win the game of life on your own merit.

2. Tools/servants/items
No matter what arguement you give me, women are not slaves or items in any way, shape or form. Women tend to be caring and tentative yes, it's kind of natural for them to want to take care of males, but we do the same, and in that sense is none better than the other. A relationship should be one where both partners intend to help, defend, and provide for -one another- not command one another. Women are not some trophy to be won and stacked on a shelf to collect dust.

3.Perfect
And neither are men, so for the sake of everything that is fair and just, don't go shouting, beating, and abusing any woman over any mistake, ever. There's no wrong that can't be worked out by either talking it out, or simply walking away from the situation entirely, no matter who's side it is. I don't say "oh forgive them every time" that isn't my place, and some things aren't forgivable, but an eye for an eye leaves the world blind.

4.Damsels in distress
Not every woman is a princess peach or zelda, (though in my opinion, if you had to pick the two,  Zelda has a bit more fight when it comes to going down) consistently being brought into danger that you have to jump into and take care of like mario or link. You'll actually annoy some women trying to handle all of their problems for them; Not every battle is yours to fight. Not all, or even many if any, women are weak, however all human beings have some sort of weakness, and it is when you see this that instead of handling it for them, you support them to do it themselves, in turn empowering them and helping them to grow.

5. A reason to break a friendship
Do NOT- and i mean DO NOT break a friendship over a girl/woman. Unless she's the type who doesnt really care about others' feelings (and I mean, this is your friend we're talking about here, so if the girl is like that, I wouldn't want to be with her, if you're getting where I'm goin') it will, especially if she knows you both, tear her deeply, even if she won't want to admit it. Either one of you decide, or both of you look elsewhere. A relationship founded under these conditions tends to get alot of pain and problems, and its easier on everyone to avoid it.

6. "bitches", etc
I'll confess I use the term jokingly under permission, but understand that derogatory terms just dont need to be used when referring to a woman, especially when she's there. My own mother had her soul beaten out of her with such references, along with other things, mental programming works on anyone, male or female, and is not a thing to be taken lightly. What you say to a woman, just as what you say to a man, is taken in and has an effect, if even subtle. And over time, who knows the result it could produce?


----What women ARE:

1. A gift
Women are beautiful, kind and caring, the kind of friends and perhaps, partners, that you want by your side. To mistreat or abandon any woman in my book is a horrid sin. Every woman on the earth in her own way is a gift to the world, as are men, much to my chagrin as i do kind of pick on my own sex,but no human being is more precious or important than the next! If you have a woman or women in your life, friends, family, maybe your relationship partner, I urge you to stop and think about how you treat and appreciate what it is you hold in your heart. take a moment to thank her for everything good she's done in your life, whether there's good or bad. We could all die tommorow you know. The girl or woman or plural thereof, that you are thinking of right now, could fall into the darkness- and YOU telling or showing her or them your appreciation, support and love...could make all the difference in the world between her seeing the truth and finding joy, or being brought into the lie and destroyed.
Just...something i have always wanted to write down and get the gall to submit, some of my feelings and thoughts...being sickened by the way that men can treat women...how abusive bastards get women, and they suffer where one who was kind but too quiet to stop it such as myself is left alone in the dust...

hopefully no one takes offense but, oh well, if you do you do. If you like this, please comment....and share, if you would. It may not make much of a difference, or it could mean the world's difference...I would hope it does mean something. i dont know if my feelings are relevant, but there, it's done...
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:icontwilightdreamers10:
TwilightDreamers10 Featured By Owner Sep 18, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Favre for agreement.
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Gerussian Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Amen!
This seriously needs to be understood.
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
;3; ikr?
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Gerussian Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Mmmhmm.
And to the "Damsel in Distress"... I ain't no Princess Peach or Zelda. I'm a Sheik.:Y
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
LOL. thats kick ass -3- shiek is badarse
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Rhapsodna Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist Filmographer
We need more men like you
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Awwww thank you so much for the compliment! (And comment) :blushes: i do wish more men thought a bit more like that itd be a happier less lonely and bitter world in a great degree!
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Rhapsodna Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist Filmographer
Wow you are quite the ladies man ewe :iconilikeplz:
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JokerzTriKz Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
The only thing I as a women disagree with, "Damsels in distress" and I'm sure many others might. Women are strong, maybe even stronger than men sometimes but with a man who would agree with this write... that would really be the best man for any woman.

My favorite point of this literature would have to be one or three. I only have a problem with men and their "touchy-feel-y" needs..... -_-
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks for the comment, and well, like i said, not every woman is a damsel in distress, however it goes without saying some choose to play that role, but just because some do it doesnt allow anyone to go and follow the idea for a mass that can't really be summed up to any one thing.

and again, thank you sincerely. I admit as a guy i do have kinda touchy feely needs, but I've always been a hugger is my thing ^^; Most of the time though you're right on the mark,men play hard and act tough, but they can't hide that they need intimacy and to have someone close forever.
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JokerzTriKz Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Aww, that is far to true. Hehe, hugs aren't a problem (at times) I'm a hugger but It's the some of men who think It's alright without knowing the girl first. Then those moments become awkward.
And your welcome, this is one of those things that should always be considered when handling a woman especially when you know you have a meaning or she means something to you.
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yeah, you're right about that! I hate guys who just act like they can walk all up on any girl they meet, or jump the gun too far too quick. Me I'm just too swift to feel i love a woman cus, in reality i can love anyone intensely and swiftly while being true, so while I'd never go too far physically, I have a tendency to leap before i look in the emotional department, and I'm glad you've been able to find meaning in my write, that means ALOT considering i was only merely ranting things ive been saying or thinking forever and ago.
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JokerzTriKz Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I rant to myself about all that stuff and how romance lately has become nothing but intercourse, or in any case the true romance of which we knew has become lost to us. It's rare you really find anyone who have deep and cherishing feelings for each other.
Lately it's become:
"hey want to go out?"
"sure"

If you know what I mean.
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know exactly what you mean! it saddens me really! When i get into a relationship, even if it isn't all so far as marriage (never have gotten -that- far), it is very serious to me. most people nowadays act like you can just go here or there and it's whatever...and if you treat it like that, how are you ever going to find someone who will actually commit? It's something you have to give careful consideration, and genuinely feel you are willing to put your all into...and it's an imperative detail lost in society's need for speed.
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JokerzTriKz Featured By Owner Sep 5, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Indubitably, It's at least nice to know there's that one person like you out there, understanding the basic ways to always/never treat a woman, because as far as I've seen...It's become rare. And for that I believe you deserve thanks. So thank you very much for your understanding. And thank you for stating those facts.
:)
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QueenEmber Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
OMG! This....is so beautiful.

and in truth I'm just about in tears from ready this. :)
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:iconmitch-kun:
Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
thank you ;3; i almost cried writing it
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experimentalweapons Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'll admit to this, I struggle with the damsels in distress thing, but I do on the other hand have a few women that are very strong. But, I understand where you're coming from, I don't understand why we (men) think we're so much better than the opposite sex, it is just nonsense
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I agree, it doesnt make any sense at all ^^;
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experimentalweapons Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
yeah, but that's the problem with tradition at times
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krrib Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist
This is amazing~ <3
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thank you kirst ;3; *hug* And thanks for bein an awesome girl in my life.
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krrib Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist
*hugs* No problem buddy~ :D
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:3
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krrib Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist
:bounce:
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lil-mangos Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
That.. was beautiful :iconkairiaww-plz:
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks, and come to think of it, >3> You're a female in my life, arent you? Thanks for bein my fwiend *:iconbrickdplz:* .3.
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lil-mangos Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
D'aww, you're welcomes Mitch :meow:
YAY FWIENDS :iconpatricklaughplz:
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
xDDD Patrick lol .3. we're friends...:iconatnightplz:
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lil-mangos Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
YUSHHH :iconspongeinamericaplz:
Oh, and also, :iconspongeincanadaplz:
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
ABOLUTELY LOL XD :iconinjapanplz:
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lil-mangos Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
:iconwithsprinklesplz:
'Nuff said.
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:iconarmstrongplz:
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gun-caster Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
well this is kind of interesting though...
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:iconmitch-kun:
Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
...i guess...It's more like me in a nutshell
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gun-caster Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Well I believe this wont even bother some folk. :)
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Mitch-Kun Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
eh, "players" Would hate me. x.x but meh.
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gun-caster Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Hey come now, they probably wouldnt...
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